Lealavendar... U lift my spirits!!!!

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Registered: 01-27-2004
Lealavendar... U lift my spirits!!!!
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Wed, 04-20-2005 - 8:04am

Lealavendar,

Ive been reading your post and to tell you frankly, I like your attitude. You lift my spirts! Thanks.

Ive just ended an A recently. It's actually my 2nd A. And boy, I tell you, the pain is 10x as much as the first one. I still hurt. I still cry once in a while. But Ive decided to really walk away from this. It wont do me any good than mess my life up especially that Im single-separated.

Each day is a struggle for me but like you I try to distract myself by doing a lot of things and focusing on other important matters. I try to embrace life once again as a single individual. And honestly, it's good.

Like you, I imposed NC. I believe that's the only way to move on. So, good luck to us.
Live life. Dont think about them. Think of yourself only.

Sweetiee

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 12:20pm
Hugs to you Sweetiee! Thank you for your kind words. I like your attitude too.. and I just want women here (and men too!) to live and not let another person keep them from it.
Its so easy to do that. (I've done it myself in the past)..but we are truly in charge of how we feel and what we do.. hugs to everyone. Hoping everyone has a wonderful day today.