Less then an hour left

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Registered: 02-02-2011
Less then an hour left
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Tue, 02-15-2011 - 2:12pm
He goes home at 3 I've made it a whole day NC OMG! Well almost but I'm not gonna between now and 3. This is huge!
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Registered: 08-25-2010
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 2:19pm
LFH -
Let's try an excercise - in order to move forward and begin on addressing YOU - you have to remove him from your verbage.

Now - how long before YOU go home? Then you can say - I have xxx amount of time left and I've made the whole day with NC! THAT is reason to celebrate! When he leaves doesn't matter!
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Registered: 01-31-2011
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 2:21pm

Yes, honey, it is huge!

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Registered: 02-02-2011
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 2:44pm
Lolly
I guess your right but not to say I'm making excuses I'm home I only work a few hrs a week so that would be why I said it that way....part of my problem I would say!
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Registered: 08-25-2010
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 3:50pm
:) Not a problem - Perhaps it will help you more than hinder! It's proven that how we talk is a reaction of how we feel - so changing the focus when we talk away from xAP helps! :)
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Registered: 02-02-2011
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 3:59pm
I did it "I" made it through day 1!
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Registered: 01-31-2011
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 4:41pm

Yes, great job!

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 11:36pm

Just put One foot ...in front of the otherrrrrrr.......and Soooooonnnnnn you'll be walkin out the doooooorrrrrrrrr

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 02-15-2011
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 11:44pm
LFH.....that is awesome!!! I hope I can say the same thing......he just texted me and I am SO close to replying..............I waitied all day for it and I want to tell him I love him.........and that everything will be ok, but I know I can't. Congrats!!!