Let's kick negativity to the curb today!
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| Thu, 03-25-2010 - 11:07am |
Seems like there's been a bit of negativity on this board the past couple of days. Negativity about ourselves, our xaps, other posters. I have a suggestion: Let's kick negativity to the curb today!!
I am going to ask a couple questions and would love everyone to answer:
1. What's been the best thing about ending your A?
2. What are the three top things you are grateful for today?
3. What are your three favorite drinks?
4. What are you most looking forward to next week, then next month?
5. Name three adjectives that best describe you.
6. What do you love and admire most about yourself?
I'll start....
1. Ending the A has given me back a sense of direction and control. I am no longer distracted (well, make that not AS distracted) in my RL as I was when I was deep into the A and thinking about him every freakin' waking second of my life! What a waste of time!!
2. I am grateful that the shoes I'm wearing are not hurting my feet today. I am grateful that people trust me (ironic, I know). I am grateful I have a loving, healthy family.
3. Grey Goose and soda with a twist of lime; Corona beer; Diet coke.
4. Having only one meeting scheduled

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Love this thread!
1. Best thing about ending A?
Getting my power back.
2. 3 top things I'm grateful for today?
My son, my husband's love and my friends.
3. 3 fav drinks?
Water, strawberry margarita, black coffee(this one triggers xAP memory so trying to give it up)
4. Looking forward to next week, month?
My son's birthday, spring, getting to the garden.
5. 3 adj that best describe me?
Emotional, fit, funny.
6. Love and admire about myself?
That I am a great mom and a good friend.
1. What's been the best thing about ending your A?
I am living my own real life and learning to love it----instead of wasting it chasing after a messed-up fantasy.
2. What are the three top things you are grateful for today?
Second chances, a loving husband, my EAS sisters
3. What are your three favorite drinks?
Diet Dr. Pepper, coffee, pinot grigio
4. What are you most looking forward to next week, then next month?
Next week: One week closer to indifference
Next month: Spring coming to Wisconsin, crocuses poking out of the dirt and all the awesome things that come with the newness of spring
5. Name three adjectives that best describe you.
intense, compassionate, silly
6. What do you love and admire most about yourself?
that i am resilient and have more strength than i ever thought possible
thanks for posting this, why_ask_why---reading all of these responses made my morning.
lillie
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