Life is ironic.. or funny

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Life is ironic.. or funny
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Mon, 04-05-2010 - 11:35am

I am sure many of you remember all the drama that I went through my xap earlier this year so I will not go into detail.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 12:13pm

Life is actually what we make it. Most of the time if we really learn to control our behavior and not always act on our feelings when they are inappropriate life goes much smoother. You and your xap were not friends when you were talking on the phone for hours, you were engaging in an EA. If you were friends, he would be able to have that same conversation with his W (you know, the woman he M, remember her???) sitting in the same room. Your conversations wouldn't have to be kept secret. If his W disapproves of her H talking to a woman for hours behind her back you are indeed involved in an inappropriate relationship.


I don't remember the drama you went through with him but you are heading right for another train wreck. You are allowing him to pull you into his web with his I miss you, can't live without you BS. If he really couldn't live without you he would stop hiding you from his W and tell his W the truth. That he has met someone he cannot live without and give his W the option to not share her H. You are again falling into the fantasy of an A.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Mon, 04-05-2010 - 1:31pm

Thanks Why ask why.. I would agree with you on his end.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 04-06-2010 - 12:35pm

What is truly ironic about your post is that you don’t realize the TRUE irony is the fact that you think you can be friends with xAP????


I’m sure there are people who’ve been smoking in bed for years and have not started a fire. That still does not make it a good idea! KWIM??


I’ve seen posters come to the board and say

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.