Litany?

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Litany?
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Thu, 09-09-2010 - 8:48am

I've thought and debated about posting about this all night - I understand making a list of why we don't want to be with xAP anymore - but I am surprised at the anger shown through insults - on looks, on habits - on stuff we didn't mind for a second while in the midst of A.

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Registered: 04-15-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Thu, 09-09-2010 - 5:18pm

I wanted to say Lolly, that after following your responses, there is no doubt in my mind that you were asking a genuine question that you were curious about. You conducted yourself with grace, even when being challenged. Your graciousness translated through your messages.

I echo Iddy with regard to Liberty - it has been one heck of a week, actually the last month or so has been different/more difficult than any other I have experienced here in almost 9 months. Perhaps things will now start to settle down.

My best,

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
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Registered: 08-25-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 7:20am

Iddy, et al -



I do understand that since other posts have had a contentious nature, that my post seemed suspect, or that you felt like I was somehow jumping in to the feeding frenzy of challenging - and I'm sorry that somehow my post seemed that way.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 9:46am

Lolly,

I really was responding to what has gone on this board as of late. I been here a while and have not ever seen the board in the state it was this past week. My post was more general than directed at you. It was like that snowball effect thing....ya know. I could have started a separate thread about it....I mention that in my post because it was general in nature. I was responding to you and next thing I knew the gates were open and my hands were typing away thoughts and frustrations that were waiting to come out for a few days straight...I was just trying to be nice poster and then I was like what the frig? Let me just put it out there. Thus my rant...a good one tho.

With that said, we are all good now, all of us. Let's all get back to doing what we do best here....supporting one another and maintaining NC. Much love, hugs, and support to ya!!

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: mynameislolly
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 11:39pm

Hi all



Just on the issue of whether its healthy to trash the exAP.



I had my exAP on a pedestal - a big one. He has an exotic accent and background, he is rich, drives an amazing car, wears amazing clothes and smells fantastic.



As I said to NC in an email earlier- if male attention

You are what you consistently do

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