Little announcement and then Roll Call time. ;-)
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Little announcement and then Roll Call time. ;-)
| Mon, 01-03-2011 - 10:52am |
Hello enders and wanabe enders. :smileywink:
First off, I would greatly appreciate it, if there were no more responses to any of the "retreat" threads. Alwayst2 has graciously suggested to email/private message her for where to find further info on your retreat. Wishing you all good luck in pulling this off.

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And a HUGE welcome to our new members, & our brave newbies still trucking along.
My stats:
- both married (I have been separated fro H for 1.5 years now - I had a planned Dday a couple weeks in)
- 2 year VERY EA & (very) PA
- co-workers, office mates, close mutual friends, spouses were friends too, children involved with both families
- I ended it 8 months ago after his planned Dday to leave ... was getting cold feet, I couldn't stand who I had become and that was it NC for good (yup - supertweener)
- he is a regular fisher and it angers me to no end (work vein has to remain open until I compete my PhD)
Don't miss him. Hope I never see him again. My behavior during the affair was repulsive, & I am grateful every day that I found EAS.
My words of wisdom for those with LC situations ... THINK very hard about all those events, outings, dinner, lunches where you justify just HAVING to go because people will wonder (but I am friends with wife - puke) ... and STOP GOING.
This was the best thing that I ever did - that is stop making excuses to run into him after you end the affair!
((hugs))
TU.
hello and welcome newbies! I am pretty new myself. I am single and was seeing a MM who was estranged from the w. It was just under a year of togetherness that began as friendship, EA, and then eventully PA. Thank god it didn't keep going.
I can say this is the best place to be now and have found such comfort and bonding here.
I'm still here, just returned back from my family holiday.
My story so far, we are both married in an A for 1 year, a dday occurred on his end and the A ended soon after. I was NC for 5 weeks until Christmas Eve when EMM stalked me in a car park, so i am back to 11 days of NC. I love my H, he is a good man, nevertheless i still think of EMM, I know there is something wrong with me, I'm starting T for the first time mid January and I am looking forward to it.
Love
V888
Hey all -
Lovin' the bullet point method - so borrowing it....
Hello and welcome to the newbies who have come out of lurkdom.
LOOKING UP IN 2011!
I LIKE THAT!!!
Good moniker!
That will keep you focused on that PRIZE, wont it??? :)
Well, Listen....YOU'VE JUST DONE THE BEST THING FOR YOURSELF YOU COULD HAVE EVER DONE!
In all my years of dating....I ...Like you....had never run into someone who I let have such a devastating affect on my life. So, to PUT THIS ADDICTION where it belongs - - -> in the past and LOOK FORWARD TO WHAT YOU MAKE OF YOUR LIFE, MARRIAGE, PSYCHE from HERE FORWARD...is TOTALLY WITHIN YOUR CONTROL!
You hit 2011 running didnt you????
Congrats for that - we'll be here for you during the rest. You've come to the RIGHT PLACE, if YOURE SERIOUS. Cuz, all your words and actions that are in the direction of the affiar...are going to be called OUT :) and ALL YOUR WORDS AND ACTIONS TOWARDS FREEDOM ...will be supported!
FINDING YOU!!! OH YAY!!!!
ANOTHER Fighter who's happiness is important to her!!!! Yay!!!!
Welcome out of lurkdom!!!! 9 days NC already?????? WOW!
Look at you go!!! Let us HELP KEEP you sailing on those wings!!!
Do you know that you've NEVER had an affair in 2011?
THAT IS SO AMAZING!!!!!!
You are helping yourself, FM ! by focusing on the "correct" things for you. The Love & joy of your family. The sanctity that you can give your family NOW in 2011.
BRILLIANT CHOICE!
Let's do this together, shall we???
Let's be AFFAIR FREE in 2011!
Peace to you as you rebuild and create yourself anew,
Michelle
I have been nc since the beginning of October. My family and I spent the New Year weekend up at our campsite and I feel very peaceful after spending a weekend away from it all. I was involved in my affair for almost 6 years, ending it has been the best gift I could ever give myself as well as being the best gift to my kids as well. I am fully present in my life again and even though it's hard work to work on myself it is worth it
Welcome looking up and finding me, I am very happy that you are both here and look forward to getting to know you:)
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