As long as we work together I can't do this!
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As long as we work together I can't do this!
| Tue, 11-16-2010 - 2:55pm |
He is making this IMPOSSIBLE! I can't quit, in this economy I wont get the pay & benefits I do here, and as a single mom who's children have a worthless dad I can't do anything else. I was at my desk, he walked out with his dad to go to lunch, asked me if I wanted 2 tacos, I said no thanks. He said yes you do, tacos or burritos, I said no thank you. He said I'm buying you tacos, so I just said fine. I can't do this, I am not as strong as I want to be, I don't know how to make him stop without both of us losing our jobs.

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Fire him. :) and his dad! :)
when he brings the tacos back...throw them on the floor and scream and jump all over them and say ' I DONT WANT YOUR MEAT!!!!"
then go back to your desk, like nothing happened. :)
Listen, I dont know HOW IN THE WORLD you can work with him. Others will chime in with wisdom FAR BEYOND what I possess - I'll just say - I understand your desire to just RID yourself and have this be over ...and NOW!
I am WAYYYYYYYYYYYY too vocal & confrontational to be in that situation with any class - so that You actually showed up for work these past 2 days...you are A SAINT!
xo,
Michelle
Smells like bullcrap to me, MO.
Yes, you can quit this destructive behavior if you want to. I realize I'm not in any position to give advice on how to manage when you work with xAP, but there are plenty of ladies here who do and have quite successfully quit their affairs.
You do not have to respond to him.
I CALL BULLCRAP!
read between the lines *this* <----his ego strokes, free sex, no investment, using you
ps. Be very careful of your LANGUAGE - Self Talk ...etc. Your post says, "I cant do this!".....
What we put out into the universe - BECOMES our reality.
you CANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN & WILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL do this.
Tacos are the new Gateway drug!
Just say No!
:)
Whether you CAN or CAN'T, you're probably right.
MO,
I, too, work with my xap. (I just joined this board.)
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