Lucky

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Registered: 12-29-2008
Lucky
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Mon, 08-09-2010 - 8:25am

Good morning ladies,


I hope you all had a good weekend. I had a lovely time. An old school friend who I hadnt seen (but talked to on line etc) came to visit me for the first time in 15 yrs.


She knows nothing about my affair, and I invited her to stay for tea sat and stay etc; we all sat, me, dh,

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Registered: 08-06-2010
In reply to: sunbeam2008
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 9:55am
It is real...the life you are living everyday is the real one. I bet it is beautiful. I am refusing to let the time with that man define everything in my home. Don't do that to yourself. You created a life for your family, that is where the most important details are. How long were you with the other? How long were you not with him? That's how I am trying to look at it. The not with him part is a heck of a lot longer. Your home and family are the details Sunbeam, the affair is just a footnote in history.