To Lurking bs's

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Registered: 09-25-2006
To Lurking bs's
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Tue, 12-29-2009 - 1:39pm

Dear Lurking Bs's,


I know that you come here searching for answers, trying to understand your WS and your own pain.

Onward and upward.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 12-29-2009 - 5:43pm

I tried adding to your post but I can't.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-31-2009 - 8:54pm

Honestly, I don't think a lot of BS 'know' they're husbands so well, or they chose to ignore warning signs.

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Thu, 12-31-2009 - 9:09pm

Hey Lost,


I like your take on this.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-31-2009 - 10:13pm

Yes, my views are asqwed because of my xAP and his wife.

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 09-29-2009
Fri, 01-01-2010 - 1:32pm
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Edited 1/3/2010 8:03 pm ET by classy01
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 01-01-2010 - 1:38pm

Classy,

Your post makes A LOT of sense... I understand completely where you're coming from. From people that are not involved in affairs - such as your dad, and my mom-they say the same thing. My mom said to me that I'm the lucky one because I get to walk away, while she feels sorry for his wife because she is being played and cheated on.

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NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Sat, 01-02-2010 - 10:05am
There are "players" and toxic people everywhere around us, it's our job to get to know them and then filter them out of our lives.
Onward and upward.
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Sat, 01-02-2010 - 11:33am

This post has me bristling on so many levels.


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Registered: 09-29-2009
Sat, 01-02-2010 - 12:09pm
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Edited 1/3/2010 8:12 pm ET by classy01
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Registered: 07-24-2005
Sat, 01-02-2010 - 12:58pm

Well...if you can't


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