Mad at ex MM

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Mad at ex MM
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Thu, 09-16-2010 - 10:00pm

I haven't posted in forever but lately I've been feeling so mad at my exMM. It has been over for about 1 1/2 years. We occasionally still talk but conversation is strained. I ended things because I couldn't live that life anymore - 5 years was enough. He never said he would leave his marriage and I knew that but I guess as time went on maybe I had hope that someday.....



He is still miserable and still there. Couldn't leave because of the kids and he is the main caregiver for his elderly parents. During conversations He usually brings up how much he misses me or 'remember when we...'.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
In reply to: juliette454
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 6:27am

Dear Juliette,



I probably should have finished my 1st cup of coffee before I checked in this morning because I thought at first you were the "other" Juliette that has been posting here lately. I was thrown off when you first wrote you haven't posted here "in forever." ;-)



Okay, so you are another Juliette,

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: juliette454
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 9:19am

Iddy,



Thank you so much for your insightful post. I know what you are saying is true. I can't blame my exMM for my happiness or dissatisfaction with my new relationship.