Mad as H@ll and a little scared.

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Mad as H@ll and a little scared.
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Sun, 09-27-2009 - 10:33pm

I was having a wonderful weekend minding my own business. I spent time with my kids and some family came down to visit and then DH and I went on a date. It has been years since we got out together alone. We had a wonderful time. All was well until XMM's daughter came by my house. Her boys were across the street having a football game and she came over to see if she could get some water and cool off with her daughter for a bit. I was fine with it. We never have really talked much but have always been nice to each other. I never really talked to her much before because the situation was awkward and I knew her dad confided in her (she is about 5 years older than me just to clarify) about his home life and the situation with me and how he felt and so forth. We were having a nice little chat and she made the comment that it was nice that despite everything we were able to be friendly when we saw each other. She then started talking about the rumors that had gone around in our circle of friends and said that how silly it was that people gossip so much. She then told me that she had heard a rumor that my youngest child (2) belonged to her father! Needless to say I was speechless.

 

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Sun, 09-27-2009 - 11:49pm

Kristin, girl, you need to be more than a little scared. xAP sounds like he thinks you are his property and he is going to "own" you no matter what.


Please listen to his daughter and to those suspicions you have. Get some legal advice and be prepared for anything he might try. Honestly, he scares me a lot. Mentally he sounds off and might do anything, legal or not to make you his.


Go Get Help !!

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Registered: 04-17-2009
Mon, 09-28-2009 - 9:30am

Kristin,


Does your H know about the A?