Masaman curry

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
Masaman curry
6
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 7:46pm
X and I always had lunch at the same Thai place. I always got the Masaman curry. Him; pad se ew beef Tonight H, the kids and I went to a different Thai place and I saw it ... Masaman curry. Coincidentaly listed right under Pad Se Ew. For a second I started to get all nostalgic, like I'll never eat that again. Boo hoo me. Then the waiter came and I ordered it. "Masaman curry please" Why? Because I like it!! And now... The last time I had Masaman Curry was with my husband and my kids on a beautiful fall day after playing tennis and doing chores around the house. And not with X listening to all his drama.

A long story to make a a small point. "He" is disappearing. It's that simple. :) :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2010
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 7:48pm

Go Chechi! Order any dang thing you want from the menu :)

Good for you.

Bodhi

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2010
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 7:55pm
Love it! Gotta take back things for YOU! Any place I went with exAP I am going back to eventually so that way it's MY reminder/place and not our reminder. I love that you can now say you ate one of your favourite Thai dishes with your H and kids. Yay Chechi!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 9:43pm
That's great Cheri, and what a nice memory of the last time you had the curry with your family after such a nice day:)
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 9:57pm
Seems silly huh? Lol! Triggers are my problem. Things hit me out of no where and the next thing I know it's completely changed my mood for the worse and I find myself missing, what- I'm not sure... But one small thing leads into an obsession fest! So my plan from here on out is to not let triggers suprise me. I while actively choose those triggers and get past them.

Am I making sense?

No, that does not mean that I will be eating lunch next week anywhere near the XYZ building where he works. I won't risk running into him. I'm not crazy!!!

Little victories for me, for now :)

Chechi
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Sun, 11-07-2010 - 10:58pm

Good for you, Chechi.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 1:16am

chechi:

way to go!

melinda