Maybe this bears repeating

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Maybe this bears repeating
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Wed, 01-06-2010 - 10:09am

"It doesn't matter"


I've always hated that phrase.

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Wed, 01-06-2010 - 11:23am

Yep, I get what you're saying Vic.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 11-09-2009
Wed, 01-06-2010 - 11:43am

"It doesn't matter" ... so VERY true, and what I keep telling myself through my biggest struggle in this mess: the endless questions that I'd love to be able to crawl inside xAP's head and get answers to :)


And that's how I'd have to get them b/c ANY attempts at having a "relationship conversation" with him netted, NOTHING, ZERO, NOTTA. He always skirted or ignored...BUT he had those days where he'd hit me out of the blue with how amazing I was and how he didn't know what he'd do without me... hot, cold, and CONFUSING as He**.


When I miss him and the words that touched my soul, I remind myself of how CRAZY that made me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
Wed, 01-06-2010 - 12:19pm

GREAT POST!


We let ourselves get caught up in the "hampster wheel" in our minds....

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 01-06-2010 - 3:10pm

Hey Victory,


I really get what you are saying because I was one of the xAPs that was non-emotional the few times I saw xAP after the A ended.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 01-07-2010 - 8:25am

Awesome reply E1.


You bring up another point that I've tried to get across here as well...basically that "it's nothing personal".

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 01-07-2010 - 12:25pm
Nail on the head. Ka-bamm!! 100% on target.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
Thu, 01-07-2010 - 4:00pm

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