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Maybe this bears repeating
| Wed, 01-06-2010 - 10:09am |
"It doesn't matter"
I've always hated that phrase.
| Wed, 01-06-2010 - 10:09am |
"It doesn't matter"
I've always hated that phrase.
Yep, I get what you're saying Vic.
"It doesn't matter" ... so VERY true, and what I keep telling myself through my biggest struggle in this mess: the endless questions that I'd love to be able to crawl inside xAP's head and get answers to :)
And that's how I'd have to get them b/c ANY attempts at having a "relationship conversation" with him netted, NOTHING, ZERO, NOTTA. He always skirted or ignored...BUT he had those days where he'd hit me out of the blue with how amazing I was and how he didn't know what he'd do without me... hot, cold, and CONFUSING as He**.
When I miss him and the words that touched my soul, I remind myself of how CRAZY that made me.
GREAT POST!
We let ourselves get caught up in the "hampster wheel" in our minds....
Hey Victory,
I really get what you are saying because I was one of the xAPs that was non-emotional the few times I saw xAP after the A ended.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Awesome reply E1.
You bring up another point that I've tried to get across here as well...basically that "it's nothing personal".
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