Maybekatie-Thanks

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Maybekatie-Thanks
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Tue, 10-26-2004 - 1:12pm
Thanks a lot. I wasn't thinking that you were being a smart-a$$. I appreciate your thoughts. Can I ask you this much? Should I assume at this point that he is not interested or wait until I am completely divorced?
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Registered: 03-16-2004
Tue, 10-26-2004 - 1:25pm
I don't think you should assume anything at this point! I think you should wait until you are divorced, and then I think you should ask him out (although NOT if he will be doing so behind his GF's back; you don't want to get back into another affair situation), and see what comes of it! :)

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Tue, 10-26-2004 - 1:43pm
Thanks maybekatie. All I know is that he pretty much tries to act as normal around me at work as possible with the exception that he does things here and there to get my attention, which confuses me. The other thing that confused me was a couple of months ago I called him and the first thing that he asked me was if my divorce was final yet. When I said no, he changed the subject quickly. That made me think that he was still interested, but that is just my guessing. I have been married for 24 years and I have been telling OM for a year that I would get a divorce, which I am just now doing, so I am sure that he probably didn't believe that I would actually do it. Yes, he has a steady girlfriend and I would not do anything behind her back. He would have to break up with her before I would ever go out with him. I am just keeping my fingers crossed because I really want him. My divorce should be final sometime next week. Any more thoughts would be appreciated.