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To: Meefreenow
| Tue, 10-12-2004 - 10:18am |
Hi. I always love your advice. I am just posting while I am waiting to go and see the divorce judge. I too, was married for 24 years, but the marriage is not salvageable. it has been over for a long time. My husband wants the divorce also. I am trying to stay focused, but X-OM is still in the back of my mind. When this is over, should I tell him or leave it be and let him find out in the newspaper? I work with him, but I haven't said any more to him about this divorce. I just want to get through all of this and see if he and I have any chance of a relationship later on. Forgive me. This is an emotional day.

Of course this is an emotional day, divorce hurts even when you want it.
Most pros tell you after a divorce that you need to take time to recover and deal with the emotional fallout from it, I would agree with them.
If you inform XMM about the divorce be prepared he may surprise you by not following through on his past words about you two getting together, talk is cheap.
I suggest that you concentrate on mending your wounded heart for a while before getting involved again.
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