MEFREENOW...questions

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Registered: 07-30-2004
MEFREENOW...questions
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 7:51am
free, from your posts your A appears to have been over for a while.

it also seems you learned a lot from the experience and i thank you for all the words of wisdon and the encoragement you provide.

it seems you were able to work through the A and stay with H. is this correct?

did you also have no feelings for your H and then fell in love again? if yes do you think it was the right decision? did you stay for your kids?

i hope you dont mind sharing your story.

thanks

upsidedown

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 10:10am
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The answer to your questions is Yes, except the staying for the kids, thats a no.

I was not quick or easy and required commitment and a willingness to learn and make changes on BOTH our parts but it was do able and it is somethin I am glad I did.

You don't know what you have sometimes until you lose it or nearly do so.

It takes time and patience for both spouses.

You have nothing to lose by trying.

Free