Melancholy today...

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Registered: 09-23-2010
Melancholy today...
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Fri, 11-26-2010 - 2:05pm

Yeah, i'm not a huge fan of how i'm feeling today.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 2:11pm

This, coming from a Tweener to be? I am still trying to figure out if it's today or tomorrow, so help me out here. I want so badly to give you your wings...and hope they will cheer you up. I am having dinner guests here in a moment, so I will check back here later in hopes you have responded.

It could be RL setting in, or you are just now realizing that just because you are 3 months out does not magically mean you are healed and ready to take on the world. It took me TWO years to get there, but you know my story and why my healing was prolonged. For those is NC...about a year is normal. So cut yourself some slack, okay?

(((Hugs)))

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 2:22pm

Gal,

I suspect you've reached a point in your healing where you're not overwhelmed with focusing on the intense pain of the new-ending and now looking at your RL and seeing that it's still a mess.

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Registered: 09-23-2010
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 2:32pm

Iddy:

It's official.

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Registered: 05-15-2010
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 3:22pm
Congratulations Gal wow a Tweener...I am 2 wks today NC..and had a rough day yesterday...You are right ..This to shall pass. I think you should reward yourself. This is a great accomplishment. You are a smart wonderful woman. Enjoy the rest of your day and weekend. You are the best !!
MC
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 3:55pm

Hi Gal,

I just had my 3rd therapy session and we touched on this exact subject.

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Registered: 09-23-2010
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 4:04pm

Awww shucks.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Fri, 11-26-2010 - 5:01pm

Congrats GF on your Wings!!! Huge accomplishment!!!

I echo Dee’s and R4M’s replies which are both spot on!

Much love and big hugs,

E1

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