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To the men...
| Mon, 01-17-2005 - 3:47pm |
Actually, this is to all who want to answer, but the men in particular. When The A is ending, or any male female relationship for that matter, why do the men feel they need to become mean, belittling and cold. My A is on the way out{ I believe} A month ago, I made the comment that I am tired of of being community property. He said I could end it if I wanted to. New years eve day. we had a snow storm. I made it to work with the hubby's help. The MM called 20 minutes later, was almost mad that I made it to work. He of course was still at home. Last week, He was rubbing my nose in the fact that he has a remote car starter and I dont. That he has a seat warmer and I dont. I do have a physical ailment that they would be perfect for. Finally, I told him that he was an absolute jerk. He came and kissed me on the cheek and said he was sorry. I can only assume that he is acting this way because he wants out to. Am I right in assuming that he feels better when he belittles me and hurts and humiliates me???? The A is on the way out. Why go to all this extra emotional trouble??? Couldnt this just end in a nice fashion??? Another quick question. Why right after nookie does the male species feel the need to find fault with other things, not related to the sex or relationships? Im sure you know that I work with this man. He is in a superior position. Why after great sex did he feel the need to criticize me in other ares of my life??? Is he just being a Dick??? CK

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It doesn't take a genius to know that when you allow someone to continually defecate on you, and you do nothing about it, they won't stop. Further, if you tell them to stop and they don't, and you continue in the relationship, you have no one to blame but yourself for any pain associated with said defecating...Seems pretty simple to me.
Oh, I'm a former OM.
Yes I agree.
Some people like to sh*t on others and some like to be sh*t on.
What a STINKY freaking world!!!!
~nuttmeg
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