Men Suck!!!! Just An Overall Rant

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2005
Men Suck!!!! Just An Overall Rant
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Tue, 05-03-2005 - 3:08pm

So my married guy initially told me he was separated from his wife. He made all the plans/promises of us getting a place together. Then he springs on me that since his wife is sick he cannot leave her. So I said good-bye, I am not interested in dating a married man. We agreed to be friends. He keeps trying to get me to go to Vegas with him or let him come visit me for the weekend, etc. I said you are still married!!! Ok now his excuse is they don't have sex so it is okay. GAWD...what a POS!!!

I have this single guy that I met who only wants a f%#@ buddy. Why can't I find someone that wants to date the proper way. I refuse to settle again. SOrry for the cursing but I am so frustrated with dating,men,etc.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2004
Tue, 05-03-2005 - 5:49pm

((Yolie))


Your MM lied about the separation. So many of them do, and I'm sorry. You are wise to tell him to take a hike, because it will only lead to more lies and tons of heartache. This bit about it being "OK" because he doesn't have sex with his wife totally cracked me up. Many marriages lack intimacy & (sex) AND IT STILL ISN'T OK!!! Actually this is one of the main reasons MMs look outside of the marraige. Gee, doesn't that just make us feel so special?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2005
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 4:28pm
Thanks so much ID. You are so right. Yes, I have more respect for myself and will wait for the right person.