Message to Annakarena

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2003
Message to Annakarena
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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 2:09pm

Hi Anna,

I read in your message to Bella in the just a question thread that you are from Washington State.

I dont want to appear nosy and you dont have to answer my Q's but I think we have a couple things in common, 1 being of course we have had affairs, but I am also from Washington State and I also noticed by your name you have the breast cancer awareness ribbon. My Mom and Aunt were diagnosed with breast cancer, my Mom 2 years ago and thank the Lord she is cancer free, they caught it in time.

I live in the Southwest part of the state of Washington, How about you??

It must of been really hard for you to have xmm in your home, I havent seen xmm in a month!! It was just a drive by on a busy street, boy was it hard not to turn my head and look when he drove by! Thank goodness for peripheal vision cause I could tell he was looking at me!!! I didnt want to give him the satisfaction of a stare.

Good luck with what you are going through
On the go chick

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2004
Tue, 01-04-2005 - 3:40pm

Hi,
I live in the puget sound region......Seattle really.

I am happy to hear the your mom is cancer free....I hope that your Aunt is ok.

I have to realize when I am feeling sad and sorry for myself, that hey:
1. I and xMM had been great friends for 8 years (underlying chemistry tension and smiles - but nothing ever said until June 2004)and we made a concious decision to have an A.
2. We always thought that we would be friends no matter what - it was a fantasy. Its too hard when there are feelings involved and circumstances like ours.

So,
Are you in the Olympia area? Long Beach?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2003
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 4:15pm

Hi,

Sorry it took so long to reply back, kids came home from school, and since they are older and computer is in open area had to get off.

Thanks for your concern for my Aunt and Mom. Yes both are well.

I live 20 miles north of Vancouver Wa. or 2 hours south from you.

It is helpful to know that I am not going through this pain of an A. alone. This site has sure helped me put my real life back on track. I called my life with xmm our pretend life. Though I think now he was pretending alot more than what he wanted me to believe.

My back story is simple.
I met him at work, it didnt happen right away, it was probly almost two months in to the job when I noticed him looking at me all the time of course I reciprocated. Alot of flirting happen and 4months after that we slept with each other. It would of been 5 years this March. So now here I am left with a broken heart to mend and alot of unanswered Q's.

Thanks for replying Take care onthegochick