Missing him suddenly

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Registered: 01-24-2005
Missing him suddenly
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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 8:13pm

Someone slap me, please.

Today I found myself missing my MM. I have no idea where it came from, it's not like I heard a song and thought of him, he just popped in my head and I began to think of the "good times"...though they were few.

When I ended things, I tried to do so in a loving way. I still loved him when I ended it. He did not take it well, and said some pretty ugly things.

So it begs the question, "why am I missing him ?" I have my ideas on the why. Would like to hear others thoughts on this. Did you find yourself missing him/her?

Suggestions? Advice?

Thanks in advance.

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 8:28pm

AE

Is it him that you were missing or the good things he helped you feel about yourself at times ??

What ever it is nothing out of the ordinary in going through times like this just don't attribute to much importance to them.

Free

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Registered: 01-24-2005
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 8:38pm

It's definately the good things he helped me feel about myself. And the sex was very good.

I just don't want to think about or miss him anymore, and wish missing him is something I could avoid.

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 10:03pm

u miss the sex, we all do to a point

max

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 10:12pm

AE

One thing I hope you understand is that those good feelings and that GOOD SEX came from you nothing can be stired in you that was not already there, and with a little time and effort you can have both again in better circumstances.

All these men are NOT sexual supermen your pleasure and emotional satisfaction was your own, it is up to you to learn to bring it out when you want it.

Free

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Registered: 12-05-2004
Wed, 03-30-2005 - 4:33am

max writes:<<>>

I only had sex with mine once...it is definately not the sex that I miss. I formed an emotional attachment speaking and seeing someone everyday for 4 solid months. Every single day with the exception of perhaps 10 days (6 of those were in a row were right after we first met and I didn't think i'd ever see him again and then he got my number and it was very steady after that) . Thats alot of time talking that I don't do with anyone, not co-workers, friends or family (in my case).

(just wanted to show another side)

Its not always about the sex Max...but i do understand what you are saying.

Lizzie