MM has new OW calling my house, HELP!!!
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| Fri, 12-18-2009 - 11:35pm |
As posted earlier, i was having a great day....I came home to a vm, from MM, exap (for those of you who do not know my story, I did not know MM was M until 4 months into relationship. I am 2 weeks NC. The vm was from MM new other women I guess. Accusing me of being a stalker and going on and on about how sad I am, she knew an awful lot about me. She left a very long vm. He has her very fooled. She has no idea that he is indeed married. Said a lot of mean things about me. I do not even care about that....she has a devil she is dealing with and will get hers...
I want to call her back and handle this. She left several messages. I do not know what prompted this. But either way, its annoying me, I do not plan on getting in a shouting match, I just want her to tell her that her prize is married and she can google it for verification. i am very skilled at being short and to the point....he has already thrown me under the bus, he told her i am crazy etc...but she is calling me and insulting me. she got my number from him.
I am coming to this board for you all to stop me, i know this would be a major ego stroke for him, but i am not going to fight over him. not at all. apparently my NC is getting to him. but i am really on the brink of returning her call and letting her know how i feel.

I think you already know the answer to this one...don't call. It'll only make you look bad. Keep ignoring and eventually they'll go away. Also, call your phone company and have them put a block on that phone number due to harassing phone calls. If you even start to think about returning these calls, remember this saying: "Never wrestle with a pig. You'll both get dirty but only the pig will enjoy it."
good luck,
ND
Let it go, Sienna. Let it all go. Let these people stew in their own toxic waste.
(((Hugs)))
~Iddy~
Kudos, Sienna, for coming here and seeking advice.
I echo the others's advice.
I can't even imagine making a call like she did.
Edited 1/3/2010 3:16 pm ET by classy01
another good quote someone wrote on here
When you pull back another layer on MM, you find a really insecure man who has to have the adoration of not just one woman, but multiple. He can't stand to be alone. Weak. Insecure. Morally bankrupt.