Momesque you OK?? You out there?

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Momesque you OK?? You out there?
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Fri, 10-15-2004 - 10:19am
Hey Mo,

Have been thikning about you...havent seen you post here in a bit and I know you were struggling with contacting xOM after he reached out to you.

Hope you and your family are ok...worried about you.

xo!

Dipss

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Registered: 07-08-2003
Fri, 10-15-2004 - 1:14pm
Oh hey there, Dipss! Just coincidentally I logged on and saw your message to me. Yes, I (and my family) are fine, and thank you so much for wondering! I host an annual fundraiser for my son's disease and the event is tomorrow evening. I've been running around like a lunatic trying to pull all the loose ends together.

Well, I was struggling with NC but I'm back to being A-OK now. The obsession to contact XMM passed as it always days, but not until I suffered thru a few really uncomfortable days and nights of fantasizing about him.

The thing is, my DH is working so darned hard on our marriage and we're really doing so great together. I feel guilty for even THINKING of contacting XMM, but as we all know, we can't always control our thoughts, just the way we respond to them.

Thanks for thinking about me, and I hope all is well with you! It's fun having you back around on this board. You've always been so helpful and sensitive, as well as entertaining! Love, Mo.

mo 7-18-10

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 10-15-2004 - 1:24pm
Hey Mo!

So happy to hear from you! I am glad that you are back on track with controlling your thoughts about xMM and that you and the hubby are doing well. Great news that he is working hard on keeping you and your marriage happy and alive.

Yes honey, I am back! I have struggled with this NC thing and for the first time I am actually sticking with it. 3 weeks today. Its hard but hoping it will get easier with time which seems to be the concensus on this board.

I wish you lots of luck with your fundraiser.

Sounds like your pretty busy which hopefully is a good thing for you. You have also been such a big help to me when I was a nut job. Which truthfully, I still am just trying to control it a bit better these days.

((((hugs)))))

xo!

Dipss