MONIMON2005
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| Thu, 06-02-2005 - 12:17am |
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I suspected you were a betrayed spouse, your hell fire and brimstone posts were a tell all. Please go to the Betrayed Spouse Board. I'm sorry for your pain, I pray you will soon find peace.
A little about me - I was also a BS but I have a much more difficult time dealing with the pain I caused than the pain I received.
I am also a very spiritual person. I have strong moral values which, out of selfishness I cast aside for period of time to pursue a purely selfish relationship. Those of us who have truly been to hell and back are here to help those who are struggling to do the right thing. It certainly doesn't help to kick a person when they are down by telling them that Satan is watching them. I also do not recall reading anywhere in the gospel where Jesus used this tactic.
CGU
Edited 6/2/2005 12:33 am ET ET by cowgirlsup

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"I suspected you were a betrayed spouse, your hell fire and brimstone posts were a tell all. Please go to the Betrayed Spouse Board. I'm sorry for your pain, I pray you will soon find peace."
Hmmm as I suspected YOU are an OW. Now did I ever say hell, fire or brimstone? Nah never did. I stated facts that it's evident you canNOT deal with. Reality sucks huh?
What's really sad about you is that you are embarrassed at yourself and you have read all kinds of things into my posts. You pray for me to find peace, please trust that I already have it. But I do like to share my feelings and thoughts. Actually I sense a lot of hostility in you. Try praying for peace for YOURSELF and to not be so defensive.
"A little about me - I was also a BS but I have a much more difficult time dealing with the pain I caused than the pain I received.
I am also a very spiritual person. I have strong moral values which, out of selfishness I cast aside for period of time to pursue a purely selfish relationship. Those of us who have truly been to hell and back are here to help those who are struggling to do the right thing. It certainly doesn't help to kick a person when they are down by telling them that Satan is watching them."
Satan is watching them hahah now did I say that? No I certainly did not. Once again, you know right from wrong. These things are what YOU are thinking but you want to put the blame on me. That's fine.
"I also do not recall reading anywhere in the gospel where Jesus used t"
You know I really feel sorry for you, I really do. You have so much hurt in you and hatred. But the things that I said (which were none of the above) were the truth and I didn't quote the bible, just spoke from my heart.
Well take care and you have an awesome and blessed day!:)
Mon,
The FLAVOR of some of your posts have been of the "fire and brimstone" sort, clearly I am not alone in this observation. The *facts* as you state are actually a mixture of facts along with one persons (yours)point of view which are not encouraging or relevant to the women here. If any of us have the desire to hear such gibberish, it's a simple matter of clicking onto the debate board.
The sole reason I am here is to help and encourage those who are trying to end their A in the same manner others have helped me. The only hurt I feel in my heart is for the poor women here who are in the same shoes I was in 9 months ago. My heart aches for them and yes, I get a bit protective when there are posts which are totally irrelevant to this board and cannot in any way add the the support of the women here. I have also read a few good posts from you. I actually double checked to see if there was another poster with a name similar to yours because they seem to be written by two different people.
In one single post you say all this about me:
* I cannot deal with your facts
* I'm embarrassed at myself
* I read into your posts
* I'm hostile
* I'm defensive
* I have hurt
* I have hatred
Amazing. You know ALL this about me based on what?...one, two posts? I'm sure the women who have been around a while and DO know me will vouch for me when I say you have sadly misjudged me.
Thank you, I AM having a very blessed day!
Edited 6/2/2005 8:11 pm ET ET by cowgirlsup
BTW,
In case you missed it, here are a few things OTHERS had to say about your posts:
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<JMHO everyone has one!>>
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Edited 6/3/2005 2:38 am ET ET by cowgirlsup