Moonunit

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Registered: 04-04-2009
Moonunit
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Sat, 11-07-2009 - 6:23am

Hey Moonunit,
How are you doing? We haven't heard anymore from you and I am worried about you.

Hugs
Htgo

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Registered: 02-28-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 7:10pm

Moonunit,


I don't really know what to say other than I am sorry you are going through such a trying time. Your

 

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Registered: 04-04-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Wed, 11-11-2009 - 4:19am

Oh Moonunit, I really don't know what else to say, but I am so sad for you... Do you have children? I know you are sad about losing the babies. I pray that you'll be a mom one day.

Big hug and take good care of yourself,
Leah

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Registered: 08-09-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Wed, 11-11-2009 - 7:47am

Im so sorry Moon. I too believe in karma but i dont think you are being punished or that this life was taken because of past events. It was just not meant to be and i must add that i am so glad for you that you did not have to make the painful decision that was in front of you previous to this. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. My condolances I feel immense sadness for your loss.

Also remember to take care of yourself now. You have a long road in front of you with AP and your H and hope you can find peace you need to get out of the mire.

SB.

Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Wed, 11-11-2009 - 11:17am

Hi Moon,


My heart goes out to you and I am very sorry for your loss.


I don’t believe it was anything you did. I don’t believe God would harm a child because of some poor choices that you are I made. We would all be suffering a great deal more if that is how God operated.


It may have more to do with timing and nature and nothing to do with anything you did Moon.


I respect your way of trying to understand the unexplainable. I only hope that you do believe in forgiveness and that you will forgive yourself.


Please take care of yourself. I wish you continued success in working with your T as you make some important decisions to move forward with your life.


Much love and big hugs,


E1


Whether you think you can or you think you cant you are probably right.


A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 10-21-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 10:33pm

I may be completely off here, but if fetus died, you may as well die from sepsis. This is not a situation to sit and wait for 2 months until your body will "reabsorb" it. Is this guy a real doctor? if I were you, I'd run to closest ER for a real opinion of someone who actually has MD behind their name.

Good luck to you and please take care of yourself.

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Registered: 08-08-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 9:49am
Thank you for your concern. My body finally did expell the fetus and placenta. It

MoonUnit

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In reply to: how_to_get_out
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 10:40am

((((((Moonunit))))))

Do you still have contact with xAP?

hugs
htgo

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Registered: 11-10-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 4:09pm

Ok I may be a little slow since I am new here. Moonunit, did your H know you were pregnant or was he being completely rude for commenting on your weight?


I cannot imagine or begin to imagine how you are feeling. I am thinking of you though.

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Registered: 02-28-2009
In reply to: how_to_get_out
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 7:45pm

Moonunit,


I am so sorry for your loss. Your in my thoughts and prayers.


Big hug,


Kristin

 

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Wed, 11-18-2009 - 10:27am

Yes I do have contact with him, we are friends. I know people say you can't be friends and end an affair, but for us it has worked. I need his support. He's been so supportive. When I actually expelled the baby, I emailed him the next day, and he came and seen me. He had to make sure that I was alright. He blames himself for the whole thing. I told him it was both of us and an accident.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit