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|Thu, 08-02-2012 - 9:55am|
Here is alittle more of my story. Met almost 15 years ago, our families were extremely close. All vacations and holidays were done together, at each others homes every day, children of the same ages, etc. He moved out of state with his family and then divorced, all the while we were still together. About five years later he remarried, gave me that news via a text msg. Ouch. Even with that, we were still in daily contact. We had our ups and downs, especially if I was too busy. He wanted me to always be available to him and if I wasn't that caused conflict. I gave so much more then he was ever willing to.
There was never any intention for either of us to leave our spouses and be together. That is something we were both clear on.
And now he says we were never friends. Never cared about me. That's hard to hear.
Trying to see the good in the end of this. Letting go and moving on is difficult, but I know it's what I need to do.