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| Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:30pm |
OK now Its over... i was oficially dumped today
i am not ready to go into details yet, its only been a few hours but i will say that it is all my fault, i set out to sabatoge any chance we had yesterday, and i did it very well
i am not ready to go into details yet, its only been a few hours but i will say that it is all my fault, i set out to sabatoge any chance we had yesterday, and i did it very well
but right now i feel like my heart is being ripped out of my chest, i truely loved this man
SB

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I'm sorry to hear that you were dumped today, I know how painful that is. When you are ready, please feel free to share. It might surprise you to learn that it helps to talk about these things, even if it's just posting on the board to strangers. We all know what the pain is like and we're here to help as best we can! Take care.
(((HUGS)))
GB2
((hugs))
Circe
Dumped or given your freedom to pursue a relationship without lies and deceit at its core?
Your choice as to perception of this moment.
While you may momentarily hurt, you deserve 24.7 attention from an equally available partner.
jmo
cl-nre
Sorry your hurting, only time will really help, He did what he did because of his own agenda not because of you, so stop blaming yourself.
Here are some books that you may find usefull down the road when your up to it.
1,2 ,6 are highly recommended by people that have read them.
1)Not just friends : Author S Glass
2)After the affair : Author J Abrams
3)The Monogamy myth : P Vahaugn
4)Wild at heart : Author J Eldridge
5)Passionate marriage : Author Schnarch
6)Shattered vows : Author S Glass
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0060928174/qid=1085102301/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/102-1001301-2960108?v=glance&s=books
Some if not all the books can be ordered from the above address if you cannot locate them locally.
They say that every journey begins with a first step and perhaps you have taken your first step today to a better future.
(((((SEE))))))
Free
Seeburg
would you believe that he called me after all of this? I think the reason was to see if I was ok, why else would he have called?
I have so many questions.....
Seeburg
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to have to endure this pain. We all do here. I haven't been here long, but I have found that everyone here is very supportive. My XMM is still trying to get me to be with him and he won't listen when I tell him (over and over) that we aren't together any longer.
I wish you peace, happiness, and most of all love. Post often and read other's posts, this helps (it really does).
Forever,
Sunshine
Yes it is normal and as hard as it may be to believe it may very well get worse before it gets better, Sorry not trying to discourage you just fill you in, but it does get better, NC can help speed things up somewhat.
More then likely Xmm or MM whatever will try to hook up with you again, you will have to decide how many times your going to go through this, be warned each time can be harder then the time before.
Good decisions
Free
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