In my face fishing attempt

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In my face fishing attempt
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 8:35pm

Day 13 NC (see and avoid at office)...and after a particularly

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:34pm

Misty -


Oy!

NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:41pm
A big high five to you for just saying NO! Who does he think he is??? I love hearing about our achievements. You're doing great!
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:49pm

I am celebrating for you.....

SO SO SO happy!! They amaze me!! They really think they can just say some magic words....I guess they figure their words used to have such a hold on us!! NOT ANYMORE!! Wonder what he is going to do to have his ego stroked...now that you had him pick his face off the floor when you said NO!! But then again, who cares? I luv it!!

We so have to celebrate these small victories...

I am going to bed with a smile on my face... YIPPEE!!

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 10:00am

Ugh, Misty!

that was more of an "In YOUR face, A$$hole, fishing attempt" What a fn jerk.

"no". So simple, so perfect. NO.

Good on ya,
Dee

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 10:07am

Misty~


I am really happy for you!

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Registered: 01-16-2010
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 8:17pm

Thank you, all. I really appreciate the support.


Today was even tougher -

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 02-24-2010 - 7:15am

(((Misty)))

Sorry I missed this thread earlier, but WOW! What you said to him was more emphatic than you know. A simple, "No." Just like the article Dee posted, "the right to say no is indelibly intertwined with the ability to make choices." You are on your way, sweetie. I know it must have been difficult, but it was also a total insult to you that he would even request such a thing. The audacity of these guys.

I am very proud of you, honey. One question though, what do you mean by, Glad it's almost over?" What's almost over?

Hang in there, babe. As hard as it is, we have to set our boundaries and stick to them. It's the only way to respecting ourselves again and with that comes respect from others.

(((Hugs)))

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~