My heart is shattered

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Registered: 02-09-2010
My heart is shattered
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Wed, 02-10-2010 - 10:32am
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Registered: 10-25-2009
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 10:55am

April:


Your story is heartbreaking.

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Registered: 10-12-2009
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 10:58am
You need to block these two toxic people from EVER reaching out to you again! Can you do that? I know it won't be easy...but these two deserve the dysfunctional life they are going to have together. Block e-mails and phone numbers. Even if he did want you back, you may always resent him for choosing his wife. And who's to say he wouldn't do it again? You will find someone better than this. His wife sounds crazy, and she will always cause problems for you. How do you know these details of this wedding? I know you are heartbroken, but this really is the best for you. It will take time. I am reading a GREAT book right now called "The Journey from Abandonment to Healing - Recovering from the loss of love." by Susan Anderson. Read it....it will help. Take care...I feel for you.
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Registered: 09-25-2006
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 12:14pm

Livefortoday gave you wonderful advice.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 02-10-2010 - 1:16pm

April,


Welcome to Endings, and I am sorry you are going through so much pain. The other gals

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 02-09-2010
Thu, 02-11-2010 - 9:21am

Thank you all so much for your support and advice, it truly helps. Some days are better than others and I’m hoping that it starts to get easier. I don’t expect to be completely over it next week, but