My name is Hazel and I am a love addict.

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My name is Hazel and I am a love addict.
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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 3:46pm
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Edited 4/29/2010 1:18 pm ET by hazelrose2009
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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 4:28pm
You are in a safe place. This board literally saved my life eight years ago when I had hit rock bottom. Don't feel like you are alone and please do not run away from this board when you have made a mistake. Even if you have to get free counseling go get help now and post on this board like your life depended on it. Count the days and hours of NC and every day that you do good let us know. When you fail let us know also but don't run away from this. It is an awful monster, believe me I know. The many days I laid on my floor many years ago in a fetal position because the pain I thought was too great. But I made it Hazel and so can you. If I can get that monkey off my back so can you. You can overcome and you WILL over come. Acceptance and repentance in the first step to recovery.
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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 5:19pm

I am glad you are searching for answers. That‘s wonderful.


Having said that: I think most of us could have answered yes to those questions either during or shortly after our As ended.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Fri, 04-16-2010 - 9:29am

hazel, in my first session back with my therapist since my r with xmm ended, i was talking to her about how i KNOW what i NEED to do but i was unable to because i just couldn't move on.. i was addicted.. obsessed... i was always co-dependent but seemed even more so now...


i have been reading obsessive love (t suggested it & lent it to me) and i can relate to a lot of it so far... co dependent no more is a good one too. i read that years ago..


good luck in your healing journey ~


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Registered: 02-09-2007
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 9:47am
and i agree with why and e1, please talk with a therapist...

~ life....

http://nomoreblues.wordpress.com/

Oh just leave me just get out of my head
'Cause I can't ta