FOR MY SANITY, I HAVE GOT TO BE DONE!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2010
FOR MY SANITY, I HAVE GOT TO BE DONE!
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Wed, 08-04-2010 - 11:21am

Hi All,


I am new to IV & recently been posting on MAS/lurking on EAS. I'm glad to find I'm NOT alone in all of this. My AP & I are new by a few months. He lives in another state but travels for work & we have been able to see each other every week & had 1 amazing overnight moment. One day he tells me his W is preg & he is pissed at her. The next he says it may not be his, etc. I tell him I have to let him go & he freaks saying it won't change anything. I said, let's take it day-at-a-time. I am M also, both

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 12:04pm

Wecome to EAS.


Sounds like this MM is a crazy-making fool.

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2009
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 3:57pm

Confused,


This guy sounds like a psycho to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2010
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 6:10pm

Hi Confused- though you don't sound very confused to me. That post was pretty clear. You are done, as well you should be. He does sound like a crazy, insecure fool, and you definitely don't need that. I hope you stick around. I hope you do say no to seeing him. We will be here to support you in the days/weeks/months ahead.

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2010
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 4:16pm

This sounds similar to my EA with XMM.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2010
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 4:39pm

If I could rechannel all the energy I put into trying to understand how xAP felt, figure out what he really meant, read between the lines, rationalize why he did the things he did or said the things he said, learn how his past affected him, I think I could have single-handedly stop the Gulf oil leak.


Although it's hard to stop wondering, at least NC means there's nothing new to try to decipher, and that in itself is a relief!


-jdv

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2010
Thu, 08-05-2010 - 5:15pm

Oh, I know...it is sad isn't it?