FOR MY SANITY, I HAVE GOT TO BE DONE!
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FOR MY SANITY, I HAVE GOT TO BE DONE!
| Wed, 08-04-2010 - 11:21am |
Hi All,
I am new to IV & recently been posting on MAS/lurking on EAS. I'm glad to find I'm NOT alone in all of this. My AP & I are new by a few months. He lives in another state but travels for work & we have been able to see each other every week & had 1 amazing overnight moment. One day he tells me his W is preg & he is pissed at her. The next he says it may not be his, etc. I tell him I have to let him go & he freaks saying it won't change anything. I said, let's take it day-at-a-time. I am M also, both

Wecome to EAS.
Sounds like this MM is a crazy-making fool.
Confused,
This guy sounds like a psycho to me.
Hi Confused- though you don't sound very confused to me. That post was pretty clear. You are done, as well you should be. He does sound like a crazy, insecure fool, and you definitely don't need that. I hope you stick around. I hope you do say no to seeing him. We will be here to support you in the days/weeks/months ahead.
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
This sounds similar to my EA with XMM.
If I could rechannel all the energy I put into trying to understand how xAP felt, figure out what he really meant, read between the lines, rationalize why he did the things he did or said the things he said, learn how his past affected him, I think I could have single-handedly stop the Gulf oil leak.
Although it's hard to stop wondering, at least NC means there's nothing new to try to decipher, and that in itself is a relief!
-jdv
Oh, I know...it is sad isn't it?