My Sis Blew the Whistle
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|Wed, 05-14-2003 - 11:41am|
My sister has called my AP's common-law wife. She did so last night. She called me this morning to tell me not to be mad at her but she wanted him away from me and she said she warned him in January to leave me alone.
I opened up to her and told her everything two days ago. I was secretive about our affair because I know she doesn't like him and always has strong words to say about him. Our affair has been going on for 7 months.
She told me that what put her over the edge was finding out that he and I did actually sleep together. She didn't know that and she was P*****. She says he's a cheater, a B***** and she reminded me of how he used to cheat on me and hit me occasionally when we were together.
His partner is extremely jealous of me simply for being the ex-girlfriend who was almost going to marry him. The very fact hat I ever existed in his past was cause enough for her to hate me.
Now I fear I'm going to get calls from her and he is going to call me and blame me for something I didn't agree to. I knew my sister threatened me before with blowing his cover, but I didn't think she'd really do it. And her timing - I am so caught off-guard.
What the hell is now going to happen with their relationship? I don't think I want him, he IS a cheater. When she calls, I don't think I can call my sister a liar and deny the affair to her. On the other hand, I feel I am betraying him. My sister is my "big sis" and my best friend. She SAYS she did it for my best interest. I don't know if it was a good idea.
I kinda hope they don't break up because I would not want to be the cause of a failed relationship. She didn't necessarily need to know. Now she does.
What is my best course of action? He has lied to her AND me, but I know he's just really confused about his life. What the hell do I do now????