My Story

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
My Story
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Wed, 01-27-2010 - 2:07pm

I'm new to this board, however, have viewed several times over the last couple of months


Here's how it all started with the A; this person and I worked for the same company years and it was a professional unitl 1 1/2 ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
In reply to: lostinlife2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 2:59pm

Welcome LIL.


You will recover the same way ALL of us on this board did/are.

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2009
In reply to: lostinlife2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 3:18pm

Since I "welcomed" you over on the other thread...all I can say is I don't know what hurts worse: Realizing it WAS a game OR the fact that I allowed myself to play it.


You're going to be OK :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
In reply to: lostinlife2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 4:25pm

I wish I could stop crying, but can't.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2009
In reply to: lostinlife2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 5:14pm

I know... :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
In reply to: lostinlife2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 6:30pm

lost,


So sorry you are going through this. We all know the hurt, the pain and the questions that we can't seem to get out of our mind. There are many success stories here, there are many of us who have survived and you will too. It does take time and it takes understanding yourself. Forget about him, focus all your efforts on yourself. Do not allow any contact from him, doing so will only feed his ego. Read everything you can here - post here. I promise this board can become your safe haven and there is a world of support and understanding here.