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NC broken after a year
| Mon, 11-30-2009 - 10:16am |
Originally, I was going to post around this time to say that it had been a year since I last saw him, since it ended and to say that, although there were some bumps along the way, things were going well, I was moving on and getting back on track.

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Man...what is the deal?
Ah yes, the things we overlook while lost in the fog.
whoa nellie!
i'm glad i checked back in here.
girl, there is a huge diff between us going nc...and contact being put upon us.
LovelyStarr
"Enlightment is not a matter of imagining figu
Hey Lovely!
I'm so glad you chimed in here.
To be honest, we had many endings/trials of NC
Wow, I am soooo proud of you and can't wait until that first "meeting".......well actually I can and am not looking forward to it.
I didnt have a d-day so to speak. My H knew, I mean there is no way that he didnt know. The A was going on for almost 4 years and I wasnt trying to hide it nor trying to put it in his face. We have several blow ups about XAP;but he never asked and I never said.
I also know that he knew because all of the sudden XAP was here for the weekend(H was kicked out at the time) , XAP left to go home and not a word has been mentioned about him since. H doesnt ask why 'my friend' doesnt call me anymore or when he will be coming to visit,not even so much as a whisper about XAP.
I think back now on how obvious I really was(to everyone)
It's amazing to me how clear hindsight can be.
Rocknrollgirl -
THANK YOU for your post.
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