NC broken after a year

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Registered: 06-26-2006
NC broken after a year
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Mon, 11-30-2009 - 10:16am

Originally, I was going to post around this time to say that it had been a year since I last saw him, since it ended and to say that, although there were some bumps along the way, things were going well, I was moving on and getting back on track.

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Registered: 06-26-2006
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 10:50am

Man...what is the deal?

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Registered: 11-09-2009
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 11:00am
Yeah...stroking his ego is the LAST thing I want to do...did it for too long :) He's a narcissist of the HIGHEST order!!
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Registered: 06-26-2006
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 11:45am

Ah yes, the things we overlook while lost in the fog.

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Registered: 12-02-2007
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 5:33pm

whoa nellie!


i'm glad i checked back in here.


girl, there is a huge diff between us going nc...and contact being put upon us.

LovelyStarr

"Enlightment is not a matter of imagining figu

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Registered: 06-26-2006
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 7:06pm

Hey Lovely!


I'm so glad you chimed in here.


To be honest, we had many endings/trials of NC

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Registered: 08-31-2008
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 7:51pm


Wow, I am soooo proud of you and can't wait until that first "meeting".......well actually I can and am not looking forward to it.

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Registered: 08-27-2008
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 9:50pm

I didnt have a d-day so to speak. My H knew, I mean there is no way that he didnt know. The A was going on for almost 4 years and I wasnt trying to hide it nor trying to put it in his face. We have several blow ups about XAP;but he never asked and I never said.


I also know that he knew because all of the sudden XAP was here for the weekend(H was kicked out at the time) , XAP left to go home and not a word has been mentioned about him since. H doesnt ask why 'my friend' doesnt call me anymore or when he will be coming to visit,not even so much as a whisper about XAP.


I think back now on how obvious I really was(to everyone)

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Registered: 06-26-2006
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 9:00am
Thank you, Logan :)
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Registered: 06-26-2006
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 9:17am

It's amazing to me how clear hindsight can be.

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Registered: 10-04-2009
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 9:48am

Rocknrollgirl -


THANK YOU for your post.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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