NC day 3 and feeling very weak

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2011
NC day 3 and feeling very weak
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Thu, 02-10-2011 - 4:12pm

It's been 3 days since I ended it by email and I'm feeling weak.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2010
Thu, 02-10-2011 - 5:06pm

(((Welcome Lisa)))

Hang in there Sweetie.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2011
Thu, 02-10-2011 - 5:13pm

(((lisa))) I was there just a week ago - BELIEVE me when I say NC is the way go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Thu, 02-10-2011 - 6:42pm

Hi Lisa,

3 days NC is great.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 9:25am

Hi Lisa,

Welcome to EAS. I remember well how excruciating the early days of NC feel. The constant pain in your chest, sickness in your stomach, heartache in your head. It is AWFUL. You think if you can just hear his voice, or get one little answer to a question, that it will make everything less painful and you can move on better. IT'S NOT TRUE.

Contact sets you back. Nearly everyone here was has broken NC will tell you they wish they had not. NC=No New Hurts.

How do you get to a place where you quit hurting? You focus on yourself. Every time you start thinking of him, turn your thoughts inward and start asking yourself some hard questions. I do not know the particulars of your A or if

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 10:12am

Hi Sweetie and welcome-

NC is so hard especially in the beginning.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 11:55am
Hi Lisa,
Thinking about you. Hope you are feeling better today. Stay strong . You can do this.
HUGS
MC
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Sun, 02-13-2011 - 6:33pm

Lisa - just checking in to see how you're doing today?