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| Sun, 06-27-2010 - 7:33pm |
I have a problem with being completely NC due to the fact he is friends with my H and my family even my kids.
| Sun, 06-27-2010 - 7:33pm |
I have a problem with being completely NC due to the fact he is friends with my H and my family even my kids.
Hi Penny- I hope you have read the tips on maintaining LC. When I first ended my A, I had to work with xap and I used that as an excuse to remain in contact with him. I was not adhering to the rules of LC. It is possible to move on and create separation even when your lives are intertwined. You have to keep yourself in check. Question every instance of communication and make sure it is absolutely necessary and not an excuse to contact him for the sake of being validated. It's tough, but it can be done, as so many here have illustrated (Iddy, TU and CSN come to mind- all work with XAP).
Hugs,
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/