NC= No Choice

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2010
NC= No Choice
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Mon, 08-23-2010 - 7:17pm

My ending was brutal, like a guillotine. You see I was never having an affair.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 9:13pm

Dear Clueless,


<<<So I remain Clueless as to what happened.>>


Maybe so, honey, but you certainly are not clueless in "how" it happened before his D-Day, or what needed to be done afterwards. You wrote it out beautifully, as painful as that had to be for you.


We'll be looking fwd to hearing more from you, and I will keep an eye

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 10:24am

Welcome

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 5:31pm

Thank you so much for your warm welcome and kind words.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 5:46pm

Thank you for your perspective, I knew when I chose this title it could be read three different ways. I should have said "

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2009
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 5:49pm

I have to say, Clueless, your post was very inspirational. It may not seem

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2010
Tue, 08-24-2010 - 7:27pm

Dear Miss Bennett, your response made me cry and I wondered why I would feel so emotional. Its about the support I guess, it feels wonderful to hear from you and the others and I am a total stranger to you all. What you said was so so lovely and yes I do feel so much better for writing and wonder why it has taken me so long to join in....I didnt want to acknowledge that I was in an affair.


I was very very lucky when DDay happened because I had already prearranged to meet up throughout the day with three different friends. Of course when they called I was a jibbering wreck and so they took it in turns to be with me throughout the whole day while I laid on the bed like a vegetable except for the tears,