NC is wonderful.........................
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NC is wonderful.........................
| Wed, 02-18-2004 - 7:16am |
I am getting back to my ol' self. My friends are noticing, my relationship with my husband is going well. My life is getting back to normal. Having XMM out of my life is a VERY GOOD thing. I will admit tho, at times I still get mad at myself for letting the affair happen, allowing myself to stoop so low. But, I believe everything happens for a reason. Looking back, my marriage had hit a stale point, (I've been married 20+ years.) My son is a grown man now and I guess maybe I needed a different kind of attention that I was not getting at home at that time. No one to nuture and take of, so to speak.
But all that has changed....And I am OH, so very glad.
Have a good day everybody!!! Be good to yourself, cause you are what matters most!!!!
TCOM :)

You sound so great!! Good for you!! You are right, no contact is the greatest tool for healing in a situation like ours!! I have had NC for almost six months and am to a point where I feel so much better about life againL!! My marriage is far from perfect, but the ema has caused me to look at things without the rose colored glasses!! Like you, I'm amazed that I let myself head down this road in the first place!! I hope things continue to get better for you with each passing day!! Congratulations on coming so far!!
Karry
Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige