NEED ADVICE

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Registered: 09-13-2004
NEED ADVICE
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 11:02am
Im not sure if you remember me, but I talked in here before, I am feeling so horrible. Everything is going out of control right now in terms of the affair and I decided not to see OM for the whole month of nov. i just told him im really busy and wont be able to talk, but he keeps asking what happened and sending messages and everything. I do like so aspects of him better than my husband but not enough to throw everything i have with my husband just because its amazing sex, which it is...but sex isnt everything and emotionally he is very shallow and arrogant. He sent me this email today, i dont want to reply to it, do you have any advice, I guess I cant have it both ways, either i just ignore him or continue to see him, which then makes me feel like crap when im not with him:( I just feel like escaping to a cave and not coming out, i told my husband if he calls to say im at a friends (he is my husbands "friend" so calls here all the time) By the way so you know, I am 22 and he is 30, my hs is 29. Thank you for your support I am going under faster and faster.

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Registered: 11-02-2004
In reply to: kleinekat
Tue, 11-02-2004 - 11:19am
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I think you forgot to tell him that it's over. Try that.

Sunny