Do yourself a big favor, drop the affair, work on things at home if you cannot work out the problem with MC and IC then leave the marriage in an honest open way NO LIES AND NO SNEAKING around, as hard as leaving a marriage is the pain of the affair will in time be far worse for everyone involve and lead to true bitterness between you and your husband which will effect your children nagatively.
And on a side bar many Cheating MM say there going to leave the wife for the OW very very few ever carry through on it.
My advice to you is if you KNOW that he's going back to his W then you should back away NOW. I know you want to enjoy these last moments, but there's a chance you could fall even deeper in love and it's going to be that much harder. Either way you are going to be hurt, but if YOU take the step to end things, it might provide a little bit of comfort knowing you ended it, rather than just waiting for him to end it. JMO!
Do yourself a big favor, drop the affair, work on things at home if you cannot work out the problem with MC and IC then leave the marriage in an honest open way NO LIES AND NO SNEAKING around, as hard as leaving a marriage is the pain of the affair will in time be far worse for everyone involve and lead to true bitterness between you and your husband which will effect your children nagatively.
And on a side bar many Cheating MM say there going to leave the wife for the OW very very few ever carry through on it.
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Ditto! Well said MFN.
We have hardly talked at all this past week with everything
both of us had going on at home. I talked to him today and
said goodbye. Hoping that I can be strong because I will
miss my best friend.