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| Sun, 01-10-2010 - 10:27am |
Hi,
As you all know, I've been a roller coaster of emotions....mostly on the down end of it.
| Sun, 01-10-2010 - 10:27am |
Hi,
As you all know, I've been a roller coaster of emotions....mostly on the down end of it.
Mickey,
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~Iddy~
Hi Mickey,
As someone who was in a VERY unhappy, unfulfilling marriage I totally get your post and your dilemma.
I think you need to put a little more distance from your A before you decide what to do with your M - whether to stay or go.
Hi Iddy,
Oops...yes, I did mean H...it was a mistype.
I think I'm so used to talking about ex-MM on the boards, that's why.
Anyway...last night I told H that right now, I'm not healthy.
Hi Notbroken,
I wish I had taken time after the A ended but I didn't.
What I do know is that ex-MM and I had another fight last night b/c I don't want to have sex.
I'm sure this must have been a mistake in your typing...lol
It does seem like you've suffered a lot of losses of late, Mickey.
Mickey,
Are you in counseling? Sorry, but I don't remember. If you aren't, I would seriously suggest it and if it's due to not having insurance, there are sliding pay scales that many Therapist's offer. Outside of that, I would like to make another suggestion but keep in mind that I am not a doctor or specialist of any kind, so this is JMO.
From your posts I see a woman who is mentally, physically, and
~Iddy~
You need to find something regular, that you can commit to, that is all about either physical exercise or fun and definitely just for you.
Comments and
Hi Mickey,
You’ve gotten a lot of great advice. I especially like what Iddy said about healing yourself as a whole.
As usual I have given your thread a lot of thought before responding and here is what I was rolling around in the ol’ cranium.
First of all breath. You have had so much to decide about including and most importantly focusing on your health issues.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.