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| Wed, 11-10-2004 - 7:04pm |
I have a sticky situation that I need help with ASAP. My xMM has been emailing my work account (and I thought I could deal w/it so against Free's good advice of calling IT and asking them to block him, I didn't) & in a moment of weakness I responded today. I know I shouldn't have & I'm so mad at myself for slipping b/c I had been so good. But that's not the biggest problem I have right now. In his email he suggested he stop by on his way home tonight so that we could talk face to face (xMM knows H is not home on Wed b/c it's his standing night out that he's never broken). So I kinda agreed we could talk in my moment of weakness. I then regained my sanity. However, and here's the problem, I regained it after he left his office, so I couldn't get him over email. He recently changed his cell number & I don't know it by heart b/c frankly I've been trying to remain NC and he had emailed it to me when I was strong w/NC and I deleted that email. So now he might be stopping by & I have no way to tell him he can't short of not answering the door. So my question is, do I pretend I'm not home (i.e. shut the lights off & not answer the door) or do I answer the door & deal w/it like the very stupid "adult" I am?

Grab your purse and wallet and don't be there for several hours visit a friend tell 10 or 11 your time, go quickly
Free
not home so you don't get the urge to open the door! You will be right back at
square one and he will have you right back where he know's he can have you.
DONT DO IT, You deserve better. What explanation do you want to talk
about? END means the end and you did it so there is nothing that needs to be
talked about unless you want to be back on the roller coaster.........................................................
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I'm trying to help you so don't take this negative okay!
Dont do it don't do it don't do it don't do it
Wow - that is a sticky situation! I would say don't answer the door. Tomorrow when he emails you (cuz you know he will) - tell him an emergency came up and you didn't have his new #. What could he possibly want to talk about in person? You know, and I know :-) BE STRONG!!!
Diva