I am so sorry to hear that you and hubby are faced with some scary times. However, I think it is so amazing that you are done with your affair and now able to be present for your hubby in a real & authentic way. Imagine if you were still in your affair? Gosh, talk about guilt! One day you would look back and think, "I wasn't there while H was getting tested for cancer because I was screwing off with AP". You will never ever have that regret. That's a blessing Gal. So, take this time to dedicate to your family, and to re-prioritizing your life. I have a feeling that going through these next few weeks, regardless of the outcome (which i pray is hopeful), will bring you a new level of intimacy and connection to your H. That's really something to look foward to.
I am so sorry to hear about your H. Like TU said, you are out of that dark hole called an A and now you can give 100% to your DH. He will need you more than ever. We are here for you, gal, but there are other boards for health related issues/cancer that you might want to check out too.
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Dear Gal,
I am so sorry to hear that you and hubby are faced with some scary times. However, I think it is so amazing that you are done with your affair and now able to be present for your hubby in a real & authentic way. Imagine if you were still in your affair? Gosh, talk about guilt! One day you would look back and think, "I wasn't there while H was getting tested for cancer because I was screwing off with AP". You will never ever have that regret. That's a blessing Gal. So, take this time to dedicate to your family, and to re-prioritizing your life. I have a feeling that going through these next few weeks, regardless of the outcome (which i pray is hopeful), will bring you a new level of intimacy and connection to your H. That's really something to look foward to.
My best,
TU.
Keep us posted, honey.
((Hugs))
Thanks ladies for the love.
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