Need Advice Today PLEASE!

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Registered: 09-23-2010
Need Advice Today PLEASE!
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Tue, 10-19-2010 - 12:56pm

Tomorrow is 8 weeks NC for me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2010
Fri, 10-22-2010 - 1:43pm

Whew!

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Registered: 09-28-2010
Fri, 10-22-2010 - 2:25pm

Dear Gal,

I am so sorry to hear that you and hubby are faced with some scary times. However, I think it is so amazing that you are done with your affair and now able to be present for your hubby in a real & authentic way. Imagine if you were still in your affair? Gosh, talk about guilt! One day you would look back and think, "I wasn't there while H was getting tested for cancer because I was screwing off with AP". You will never ever have that regret. That's a blessing Gal. So, take this time to dedicate to your family, and to re-prioritizing your life. I have a feeling that going through these next few weeks, regardless of the outcome (which i pray is hopeful), will bring you a new level of intimacy and connection to your H. That's really something to look foward to.

My best,

TU.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 10-22-2010 - 2:42pm
I am so sorry to hear about your H. Like TU said, you are out of that dark hole called an A and now you can give 100% to your DH. He will need you more than ever. We are here for you, gal, but there are other boards for health related issues/cancer that you might want to check out too.

Keep us posted, honey.

((Hugs))
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 09-23-2010
Fri, 10-22-2010 - 2:50pm

Thanks ladies for the love.

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