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| Sun, 08-30-2009 - 2:58pm |
My AP ended our 1 1/2 year affair just days after my birthday and buying me the most beautiful ring.
| Sun, 08-30-2009 - 2:58pm |
My AP ended our 1 1/2 year affair just days after my birthday and buying me the most beautiful ring.
There is a little too much man bashing here sometimes and i feel that there ARE some men that are genuine but are stuck between what they need as a living and feeling human emotionally and what is right and moral.
I have posted before that women have no problems complaining that their H wont do this or that and doesnt fulfill them, why cant a man make the same claims without being branded a liar and cheat too?
If you want to end things romantically with your AP, then by all means, stand your ground, but you have to be prepared for his feelings to be hurt just as yours are. He may have a W and kids, but you were a big part of his life too so losing you may be just as hard for him. I dont condone his to-ing and fro-ing between you and W, but he may be confused and not know what he really wants and is trying to do the *right* thing. Ultimately you must do what is right for YOU but understand there still is 2 sides to each story. Good Luck.
Hi FMH
It's the 'trying to remain friends' thing that keeps you engaged in an affair...an