Need MAJOR support....I'm DONE for GOOD
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Need MAJOR support....I'm DONE for GOOD
| Thu, 10-29-2009 - 4:38pm |
I’ve decided once and for all to finally end this thing, while it isn’t like many other stories I’ve read (we are not in love nor do we even do lunch or things of that sort) but I DO have feelings for him, care about him and the sexual attraction is AMAZING but I know I have to stop this. It has gone on for a year, which is a year too long and it needs and has to STOP.

Hi LGA,
Sorry you are hurting. It's good that you are going to see a T. It will help tremedously getting through this especially since you work together.
We are here for you.
Much love and big, big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Hi LGA, congrats on making the decision to end the 'madness'. Cry if you want, sweetie, get the 'toxic' feelings out.
The T will help immensely to gain some perspective about the situation; you're a smart lady. Personally I think everyone needs some type of counseling when they get over an affair.
((((big hugs))))) you CAN do this, LGA!! Hang in there, we're here for you :) :)
trixie xo
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.”
LGA-
Kudos to you on making this important and life changing decision. You are right that one year is a year too many. If left alone, it could go on forever and become messier each day. We're here for you when you need us. As someone who is at the four week mark of NC, I can tell you that ending the A is sad, difficult, challenging, but overall empowering and liberating. It feels good to take your life back!!!
((HUGS))
Gal
I haven't posted here in a long time.
Thank all of you for your support, it means so much and I too have broke the NC laws but this time I am for real and know in my heart I’m letting this go.
Hi all...and especially LGA:
I am right there with you and can relate big time to the minute-by-minute struggle...mine lasted the same amount of time...in fact today would be our 1 year anniversary (!) if you can call it that...
I too am in therapy...and there's really nothing that I can really do except keep walking in this direction...and realize that I just don't know what I want. I have to try to heal from wanting a relationship of any sort with anyone.
Hello there,
I have not posted in a very long time, but