Need more help

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2011
Need more help
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Fri, 02-11-2011 - 11:29am

Since I last posted little over a week ago, I have been NC with AP/xAP until Wednesday.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 11:43am

Hi S&L

Sorry to hear you are hurting

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 11:57am
S and L,
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Let these words be your guiding light. He CANNOT give you what you want. Sometimes we have to be rude so someone will get the message, but don't 2nd guess why you did this. He has caused you enough pain and now talking to him has set you back again, which has cost you 1 week of NC.

Also, there was no point in telling him how he treated you. He will never give you the answers your heart wants to hear.

So, back to the drawing board. NC starts 1/10/11 and since you've already had a week of practice, this time around you will have a better understanding how important it is to your healing NOT to break NC.

((Hugs))
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha