Need a pep talk for NC!!
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Need a pep talk for NC!!
| Fri, 09-24-2004 - 4:46pm |
Well, NC has not been very hard this week, since OM. was on vacation and probably didn't even bring his laptop. But he comes back tomorrow, so I could use some reinforcement from you guys so I don't contact him or respond if he contacts me. Two weeks ago, I was so upset because he didn't check in with me at all to see how I was and I couldn't understand how he could just walk away without a backward glance. Now I am more upset at the idea that he is going to contact me and worried if I'll be able to stay strong, because I know this relationship is bad and I have to stay away from it. And it's funny, I am very sure that he is going to get in touch with me once he realizes that I'm not contacting him anymore. It's a game that he plays and I was a conquest. Well, no more!!

You can do this. If you get an email, delete it without reading it, not easy but you can do it. If he calls your cell, hit the ignore button or keep your phone shut off. None of this is easy, I know that but it is possible. Believe everyone here when they say NC is the only way. You have to make the decision that you are not going to participate in this game, that you are done.
Sending you the strength to get thru this. Just repeat I can do this over and over.
DAF
This may smart a little but remember you were not worth the effort to contact when he was being intertained on his vacation, Your not his toy to satisify his narcissistict problems when he gets bored.
Turn the computer off, turn the cell off and leave it home take the hubby and the kids and find something that will keep you out of touch for the whole weekend, reclaim you life with your family.
Free