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| Mon, 08-23-2010 - 7:50pm |
Hi,
I'm new here to this board. I knew a man for 8 years that I worked with (he's in a very senior position) and I was always secretly in love with him like an unattainable crush. He's 10 years older. We always worked well together and he was really good to me and caring. Both of us are married and there are kids. Again, he has a lot at stake in the company and with his stay at home wife and multiple kids, big house etc. He has a bit of an ego too but had gone through a bad time where business was bad etc. so i think that took a bit of a hit as well.
Over a year ago, out of the blue - he made a pass at me. I didn't see it coming and barely looked at him like that anymore. But because I was in a bit of a bad place myself, I was like a girl back in high school who just found out the captain of the football team liked her. We had a bit of an 'emotional affair' for 6 months with a lot of flirting but nothing really being said. He came to visit as he was working away for a year

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I'm not sure what your work relation to him is or what you're expected to do within those confines, but I suggest that you forward that email and registration to his assistant, if he has one, but if not, to him -- preferably without explanation, but if it's required, just say "this was erroneously emailed to me so I am forwarding it to you to complete."
BUT, I'm not sure this is great advice and if I were you I would hold off on doing anything until wiser and more experienced voices from the board chime in.
Whatever you do, do not respond in any way shape of form that smacks of personal investment, anger or interest. Keep it 100% professional.
Good luck!
Dee
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