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| Tue, 06-29-2004 - 8:09pm |
I have been married for almost a year, but have been with my h for 8 years. We have 2 gorgeous daughters whom I love more than anything. I have been working at a bar for 6 months where I met this man. He used to come over to our house to help us do certain things such as fixing things etc... anyways one night after I was done working and everyone left except for him we kissed, well eventually we had sex it's been going on for quite sometime, I told my husband recently and are trying to work things out, I love my husband very much but I'm in love with this other person also, he really has not been to clear about how he feels he says he loves being with me and spending time with me, the problem is he can offer me and my children nothing, I have tried so hard to end it but I think about him constantly my husband wants me to quit my job but I'm not sure I can live without seeing him, please any advice I would appreciate.

It does not matter what this other man can offer you the fact is he is offering you NOTHING A ALL BUT BOOTY calls, I thin k he has made it clear he is not in love with you he just loves getting together for sex plain and simple.
I suggest that you do not trust your feelings to much at this point when your in the middle of these things it is all to easy to mistake obbsession for love and the addiction to the emotional highs that come with these situations can be very hard to understandand deal with.
But the long and the short of it is what is really important to you your family or this other man because one or the other is on the way out like it or not.
I hope you have the courage and good sense to do what your husband wants if you want to save your family.
how ever this ends YOU need to make a decision before your husband makes it for you.
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