Need some info

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Need some info
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Wed, 02-25-2004 - 11:16am
Can anyone here tell me anything thing about investigators.

I really have the need to know the truth about what MM is doing. I can't do the job myself. This idea just came to me this morning. I have no idea what the cost would be. I looked in the yellow pages, there are investigators that will give you a free consultation. I don't know if it's on the up and up.

I would appreciate ANY information that you can share. ALSO, I posted this somewhere else. I just don't know where. I could have sworn I was logged into this board, but guess I wasn't. If anyone sees it please let me know.

Thanks in advance

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 02-25-2004 - 7:01pm
Here is my e-mail address: kljones1@yahoo.com

Wait til you read my other post......I'm about to post now. You might be able to help.

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Registered: 09-30-2003
Thu, 02-26-2004 - 9:17am
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Edited 10/1/2004 6:29 pm ET ET by sally289
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Registered: 02-23-2004
Thu, 02-26-2004 - 4:11pm
I have to wonder if proving what you already know is worth losing your life savings. I don't mean to be harsh, but you already know he's lying to you. Don't make your life worse by spending your hard-earned money.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 02-26-2004 - 4:46pm
You are so right. I've decided to end it anyway. What I was going to have to do to get the money to hire an investigator is not worth it.

He finally admitted to me today that he had been lying. For what reason? If he would lie about something so trivial as that, there's not telling what else he would lie to me about. Not to mention in the past I've caught him in several lies.

I'm trying to think positive, and I want out.

Thanks

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Thu, 02-26-2004 - 6:09pm
I'm just ending my affair, too, so I really do know what you're going through. I just have been determined not to let this make my life worse and more painful than it has been while our relationship has floundering. I've learned a lot of this and am pretty determined to take the positive and focus more on that. It has been a great thing for me even if right now it's one of the most painful things I've ever done.

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